The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
â€• Martin Luther King, Jr.
There are books, that one has for twenty years without reading them, that one always keeps at hand, that one takes along from city to city, from country to country, carefully packed, even when there is very little room, and perhaps one leafs through them while removing them from a trunk; yet one carefully refrains from reading even a complete sentence. Then after twenty years, there comes a moment when suddenly, as though under a high compulsion, one cannot help taking in such a book from beginning to end, at one sitting: it is like a revelation. Now one knows why one made such a fuss about it. It had to be with one for a long time; it had to travel; it had to occupy space; it had to be a burden; and now it has reached the goal of its voyage, now it reveals itself, now it illuminates the twenty bygone years it mutely lived with one. It could not say so much if it had not been there mutely the whole time, and what idiot would dare to assert that the same things had always been in it.
â€• Elias Canetti, The Human Province
It was much better to imagine men in some smoky room somewhere, made mad and cynical by privilege and power, plotting over the brandy. You had to cling to this sort of image, because if you didnâ€™t then you might have to face the fact that bad things happened because ordinary people, the kind who brushed the dog and told their children bedtime stories, were capable of then going out and doing horrible things to other ordinary people. It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyoneâ€™s fault. If it was Us, what did that make Me? After all, Iâ€™m one of Us. I must be. Iâ€™ve certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No-one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. Weâ€™re always one of Us. Itâ€™s Them that do the bad things.
â€• Terry Pratchett
To be normal is the ultimate aim of the unsuccessful.
â€” Carl Jung
But the problem is, I donâ€™t know how to be the glass half full girl, but I also donâ€™t know how to not be the glass half empty girl. Those are two extremes and I feel like Iâ€™m somehow caught in the middle.
Iâ€™ve noticed before that if you go too long without anyone seeing you, really seeing you, itâ€™s easy to start wondering if youâ€™re really there.
â€” Maggie Mitchell
Everything you see or hear or experience in any way at all is specific to you. You create a universe by perceiving it, so everything in the universe you perceive is specific to you.
â€” Douglas Adam
Two important facts about our minds: we can be blind to the obvious, and we are also blind to our blindness.
â€” Daniel Kahneman
Because letâ€™s be very clear: strong men – strong men, men who are truly role models, donâ€™t need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful. People who are truly strong lift others up.
â€” Michelle Obama
Happy endings are a luxury of fiction.
â€” Trudi Canavan