{"id":8948,"date":"2018-01-18T17:30:04","date_gmt":"2018-01-18T22:30:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/?p=8948"},"modified":"2018-03-01T16:15:08","modified_gmt":"2018-03-01T21:15:08","slug":"on-this-day-friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/2018\/01\/18\/on-this-day-friendship\/","title":{"rendered":"On This Day &#038; Friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/tumblr.tastefullyoffensive.com\/post\/73564547062\/economics-btch-jimbenton\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" alignright\" style=\"max-width: 100%;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/78.media.tumblr.com\/eb21cbafd1203086e3e2a337d07b279d\/tumblr_mzito40Vu51qewacoo3_500.jpg?resize=500%2C337\" width=\"500\" height=\"337\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">The image that a specific friend failed to like<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>When I look through Facebook&#8217;s On This Day feature, sometimes I am startled to see that someone I expected to like a specific post did not.<\/p>\n<p>This reminded me that what I post often is targeted. There are a handful of people who I know follow my posts and will appreciate them.<\/p>\n<p>Friends are people who have shared experiences and\/or interests. Those I target with a post are not usually tagged or named even when I intend for them to see it. The game is for them to see it as an inside joke. So for them to fail to like the post, I feel like I failed the friendship. It is like saying something that is an inside joke and get no smile.<\/p>\n<p>Are we even still friends? (Sorry, just being melodramatic.) Probably. It is just a single data point. There would need to be a consistent pattern of misses.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I look through Facebook&#8217;s On This Day feature, sometimes I am startled to see that someone I expected to like a specific post did not. This reminded me that what I post often is targeted. There are a handful of people who I know follow my posts and will appreciate them. Friends are people [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[55,1040],"tags":[238],"class_list":["post-8948","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aboutme","category-facebook-interweb-computers","tag-friend"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1rUBW-2kk","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8948","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8948"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8948\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8948"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8948"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8948"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}