{"id":6473,"date":"2012-04-24T07:10:50","date_gmt":"2012-04-24T11:10:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/?p=6473"},"modified":"2016-06-24T09:24:58","modified_gmt":"2016-06-24T13:24:58","slug":"connected-but-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/2012\/04\/24\/connected-but-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"TED Talk: I Share Therefore I Am"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Human relationships are rich and they are messy and they are demanding and we clean them up with technology.<br \/>\n\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Sherry Tuckle<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Technology is the great deceiver. We can use it to craft how we present ourselves to others.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, we lose the connections. As a university campus webmaster, I most preferred meeting in person. Phone was second best. Email only was least. At the time, I thought it a James Borg\u00c2\u00a0thing that 93% of\u00c2\u00a0communication is non-verbal (words). Email only\u00c2\u00a0interactions usually suffered from misunderstandings. People with whom I had single meeting were more understanding and less problematic.<\/p>\n<p>Now days, I think <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/2011\/11\/01\/ted-talks-trust-morality-and-oxytocin\/\">oxytocin<\/a> generating trust is responsible. Email is just text and misunderstandings happen when the reader has assumptions to mistrust the writer. That meeting in person creates the necessary trust.<\/p>\n<p>Technology does enhance our relationships when used to augment in person interactions not replace them.<\/p>\n<p><object width=\"526\" height=\"374\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowScriptAccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"wmode\" value=\"transparent\" \/><param name=\"bgColor\" value=\"#ffffff\" \/><param name=\"flashvars\" value=\"vu=http:\/\/video.ted.com\/talk\/stream\/2012\/Blank\/SherryTurkle_2012-320k.mp4&amp;su=http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/tedindex\/embed-posters\/SherryTurkle_2012-embed.jpg&amp;vw=512&amp;vh=288&amp;ap=0&amp;ti=1409&amp;lang=&amp;introDuration=15330&amp;adDuration=4000&amp;postAdDuration=830&amp;adKeys=talk=sherry_turkle_alone_together;year=2012;theme=what_s_next_in_tech;theme=media_that_matters;event=TED2012;tag=communication;tag=community;tag=culture;tag=technology;&amp;preAdTag=tconf.ted\/embed;tile=1;sz=512x288;\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/video.ted.com\/assets\/player\/swf\/EmbedPlayer.swf\" \/><param name=\"pluginspace\" value=\"http:\/\/www.macromedia.com\/go\/getflashplayer\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><\/object><\/p>\n<p>If the above video does not work, then try <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/sherry_turkle_alone_together.html\">Connected, but alone?<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Human relationships are rich and they are messy and they are demanding and we clean them up with technology. \u00e2\u20ac\u201d Sherry Tuckle Technology is the great deceiver. 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