{"id":4802,"date":"2006-12-31T18:18:17","date_gmt":"2006-12-31T22:18:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/2006\/12\/31\/blog-crush-part-ii\/"},"modified":"2012-10-13T22:46:43","modified_gmt":"2012-10-14T02:46:43","slug":"blog-crush-part-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/2006\/12\/31\/blog-crush-part-ii\/","title":{"rendered":"Blog Crush: Part II"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Following up on my blog crush post<\/a>.<\/p>\n

The Internet is a much bigger place than just the blogosphere. My previous comments were solely about blogs and strictly within the definition of “blog crush<\/a>” provided in the qotd, not any of the many other forms of communication offered by the Internet. I have made lots of companions and even several friends over the Internet. I currenly have more<\/strong> companions and friends from online sources than offline sources (though I am currently working harder to create offline, local relationships).<\/p>\n

Its a Straw Man Argument<\/a> to characterize my lack of enthusiasm about making friends through blogs as because I am not open or trusting.<\/p>\n

From the definition of acquaintance<\/a>:<\/p>\n

1<\/span>.<\/strong> Acquaintance,<\/span> associate,<\/span> companion,<\/span> friend<\/span> refer to a person with whom one is in contact. An acquaintance<\/span> is someone recognized by sight<\/strong> or someone known, though not intimately: a casual acquaintance. <\/span>An associate<\/span> is a person who is often in one’s company<\/strong>, usually because of some work, enterprise, or pursuit in common: a business associate. <\/span>A companion<\/span> is a person who shares one’s activities, fate, or condition<\/strong>: a traveling companion; companion in despair. <\/span>A friend<\/span> is a person with whom one is on intimate terms and for whom one feels a warm affection<\/strong>: a trusted friend. <\/span>3<\/span>.<\/strong> familiarity, awareness.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I don’t share the intimate details of my life in blogs. Of course, I don’t share the intimate details of my life with anyone other than a handful of people. From the dozens of personal blogs I’ve read (leaves out the newsies, techies, etc), almost all do the same as I in leaving out the intimate details. Other than George<\/a>, I don’t think the rest of you care very much for the details of some woman sticking her tongue down my throat, the details of who I find physically attractive, or even for whom I am going to vote. This lack of intimacy on everyone’s part is what prevents the creation of friendships from solely the use of blogs.<\/p>\n

So what about warm affection? A good test, I think, would be to suddenly read in the blog post that a friend and family member wrote the blogger died. How would I feel? Would I cry over the loss? Would I want to go to that person’s funeral? With Bernie<\/a> or George, I would really feel the loss and at least shed a tear. Prema, Porsche, and Briana would get a least some thinking about the great memories for a long time combined with feeling of loss. The others? I would feel a little bad, but I would not be devestated. Sorry, Gina.<\/p>\n

Certainly, I have been called a Vulcan or even named Tuvok. My interpretation of what is a friend probably is much stricter than most would use. However, I am very open to making friends online. One can always use another friend.<\/p>\n

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Following up on my blog crush post. The Internet is a much bigger place than just the blogosphere. My previous comments were solely about blogs and strictly within the definition of “blog crush” provided in the qotd, not any of the many other forms of communication offered by the Internet. I have made lots of […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1614],"tags":[1733,1465,187,1760,72,1078,1464,238,3044,75,1759,771,240,761,1757,1466,1758],"class_list":["post-4802","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-from-vox","tag-acquaintance","tag-associate","tag-bloggers","tag-blogosphere","tag-blogs","tag-communication","tag-companion","tag-friend","tag-friends","tag-internet","tag-interpretation","tag-intimacy","tag-library","tag-relationships","tag-straw-man-argument","tag-vox-crush","tag-woman"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1rUBW-1fs","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4802","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4802"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4802\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4802"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4802"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ezrasf.com\/wplog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4802"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}